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16 Years After A Pyrrhic Victory: It’s Time For Reflection, Not Only Celebration

By Lionel Bopage

Dr. Lionel Bopage

Since the end of the 30-year-long armed conflict in Sri Lanka in May 2009, whether it should be celebrated as a victory or allowed to be mourned by the war victims has been a matter of debate almost every year. Since 1949, the government of Sri Lanka and the nationalist forces denied a political demand by the Tamils of the North and East for a degree of autonomy. The national question turned into an armed conflict, later termed ‘separatist terrorism’, and a brutal military solution was found after a decades-long war. The state armed forces, the LTTE, and their various paramilitaries were all responsible for killings, disappearances, torture, and many other abuses during this sordid saga.

The JVP vehemently supported the war effort of the then regimes and security forces, by building the largest ever coalition of the nationalist and chauvinist forces down south. It now has an enormous responsibility, with its broad front, the NPP, to move the country and the communities towards cohesion, unity, and reconciliation. To build trust in the North, East, and South of the country, the NPP needs to take meaningful and courageous actions rather than just resorting to empty promises..

The North and South are still deeply divided, even to the extent that some in the South do not want to allow the people in the North to mourn their loved ones who were killed during the prolonged, ruthless war. In a country with multiple communities, could one community rejoice while another is mourning? Those who took part in defeating the armed struggle may feel that they have the right to suppress, prevent, and stop the grieving of the Tamil people. Collective mourning, as demonstrated by the victims of violence during the armed uprisings in the south, should be extended to individuals in the North and East who are still unaware of the date of their friend’s or relative’s death, irrespective of whether they were militants or civilians.

Lots of us are glad that the armed conflict is over. While recognising the right of anyone to celebrate the end of the armed phase of the conflict, we as people need to raise some important questions, at least now. Have the 16 years of war victory celebrations and suppression of commemoration of the war dead among the Tamil people helped achieve unity, reconciliation, and cohesion among diverse communities? How has the suppression of grieving and mourning of the war dead, civilian or militant, bulldozing the graves of their fallen, helped in reuniting the country and generating lasting peace?

The best way to use today’s war victory celebration would be to reinforce the importance of working towards unity, reconciliation and cohesion, by acknowledging the wrongdoings in the past that led to the armed conflict, taking strong and enforceable measures to prevent such wrongs from happening once again and developing enforceable legal mechanisms that will lead towards contributing to the unity, reconciliation and cohesion of our divided communities.

At a War Victory Commemoration, speaking about peace and reconciliation not only involves acknowledging the sacrifices of those who fought, but also recognising the lasting impacts of war and the need for healing and understanding. Moving beyond the celebration, the NPP government needs to reflect on the lessons learned from the conflict and its commitment to a better future free from conflict. It will need to include honouring the fallen, the sacrifices they made, and acknowledging the pain, suffering, and loss experienced by those who fought, their families, and communities.

It is also a time to pause to ‘share in the pain of the defeated’, who thought they had no choice but to take up arms. This involves recognising the human cost involved on all sides, while reflecting on the lasting impact the conflict has had on individuals and society as a whole. The emphasis needs to be on the need for peace, justice, and cooperation in building a better future, and encouraging understanding, forgiveness, and healing between those who may have been adversaries. At the same time, we need to inspire hope and commitment to preventing future conflicts and building a more peaceful country.

On a day like this, we need to acknowledge the complexities of war by recognising that war is not simply a clash of armed forces and groups, but a complex web of human traumas, and many negative experiences and consequences. The political leaders, in particular, need to understand the significance of inclusive language while avoiding any words that could be interpreted as celebrating victory over the enemy or dehumanising their fallen and glorifying the war. It would be of significance to highlight the human experiences to build a vision for a positive future, a future of resilience, courage, and compassion, and the strength and humanity of all individuals involved.

If we assert that we are working to create a unified country, now is the time for the NPP and its leaders to have the courage and resolve to calm down the highs and lows of victory and defeat, tackle the nationalist tensions in society, and put into action their plan to make “A Beautiful Life and a Thriving Nation”.

The NPP leaders need to inspire action and commitment to creating a future where peace, justice, and reconciliation are prioritised. After all, without encouraging open and honest discussions about the past and without learning from past mistakes, it will be impossible to prevent similar conflicts in the future and engage in the journey towards a cohesive nation.

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    … The state armed forces, the LTTE, and various paramilitaries were all responsible for killings,
    This blanket statement is both unjust by Tamils and unfair by LTTE, who rose to stop the indiscriminate pulverising of Tamils who showed up opposition to the oppression of Tamils.
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    … The JVP vehemently supported the war effort of the then regimes.
    I salute Dr. Lionel Bopage for his frank stand.
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    … In a country with multiple communities, could one community rejoice while another is mourning?
    Peace, unity, and growth as a nation, hinges on a genuine response to this state of affairs.

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      “The North and South are still deeply divided, even to the extent that some in the South do not want to allow the people in the North to mourn their loved ones who were killed during the prolonged, ruthless war”
      Despite AKD’s conciliatory speech, I didn’t hear the National Anthem being sung in Tamil. Is that significant?

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        AKD now claims that he is against war as a solution for political problems. Maybe he is different from his founder leader Comrade Wijeweera, and different from his mentor Somawansa, who put a lot of effort into supporting the war while it was going on. If AKD is different, it is a good thing .

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      “The state armed forces, the LTTE, and their various paramilitaries were all responsible for killings, disappearances, torture, and many other abuses during this sordid saga.”
      Why didn’t he included his own JVP who are also responsible for killings. disappearances, torture and many other abuses?

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        Poor JVP was not involved in war-related killings. It killed Sinhalese mainly, not as part of the war.
        The LTTE had a more balances approach as they killed Tamils, Sinhalese and Muslims.

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    It’s time to reflect, not celebrate: time to reflect who we won against!

    Did we win against vastly superior forces/odds …….. like the Vietnamese against the French or the US? ……. Or the Afghans against a combination of world military powers?

    When we make such a fuss about defeating a vastly inferior adversary, in every measurable criteria, after 30 long years …….. it shows what pathetic fighters we are. What a sorry military we have.

    There is nothing to celebrate …….. there’s much to be ashamed of.

    But then try to get any Lankan leader to be ashamed of anything they have done ……. murder, bank-robberies, swindling, ……… you name it!

    Shame and Lankans are mutually exclusive.

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      March 10, 2016 ……. https://www.colombotelegraph.com/index.php/gotabaya-rajapaksa-clarifies-listening-in-on-kps-chats-with-prabhakarans-man-friday/

      “Dr. Michael Roberts,

      You are bragging as if we defeated the might of the USA forces! Man, get a handle on yourself.

      Look at the odds. You are talking about several hundred thousand with all the advantages and legitimacy in their corner against an ill equipped barefoot ragtag bunch of amateur fighters. The fact it took 30 years for us to overcome the LTTE shows the ingenuity of the Tamil youth and the sheer incompetence of us the Sinhalese.

      Truth is truth and it’s about time we learned to face it.”

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        Nimal,
        What happened to all those interesting patriots like Jayewardene, Eusense, etc ?

    • 6
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      Thank you Lionel for a good piece of writing and thanks also Nimal for your candid remarks above
      Yes we must move on as a nation but we also must admit the atrocities carried out by both parties
      NPP and its leader AKD should walk the talk
      Ratnam Nadarajah

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        RN,
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        The world’s norm for a sign of good governance is measured during the first 100 days. However, for the past eight months, the AKD government has shown no interest in “walking the talk”. Instead, he continues to tell big lies or exaggerations about whatever his lips drop down. So the litmus test, also known as LG polls, showed that they received 1/3 fewer votes than they did six months ago. That means that in LG polls, every third of those who previously voted for them have shown preference for them. The worst part is that AKD-led groups criticize almost everyone except their JVP members. The kind of criticisms have now cornered them in the middle and are stuck today.

        I believe people’s hopes have been dashed as of today, after 8 months in their office. We don’t see any clear steps taken by them either, even though their big lies continue. They should avoid making silly public statements until they achieve their objectives. There is nothing like CLEAN SRILANKA in action today. Instead, people are struggling to grab their packet of table salt these days. Their team delivers flowery speeches but does nothing. Thanks to FORMER President Mr. RANIL W, AKD can live in the shadows for a few more months before being killed by an increasing number of enemies today.

    • 2
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      Hello Nimal,
      If you haven’t read Keenie Meenie by Phil Miller, download it (the usual places have it). It reinforces much of what you said. It also sheds some light on the Omani and Yemeni Histories. I knew one ex-Marine that served time “helping” the Sultan. By the way Richard Clutterbuck is the man behind most of the Anti-Terrorist Tactics used by many Authoritarian Regimes (and others) including Sri Lanka against the Tamils. The British Government was directly involved ” Despite these attempts to hide aspects of the past, there is enough evidence to show that when it mattered most, a senior representative from Thatcher’s government gave KMS approval to train Sri Lanka’s army, which was in the midst of carrying out war crimes”.
      Here is a quote from Phil Miller about the LTTE “In time, they would become one of the world’s most sophisticated guerrilla movements”.
      KMS were flying Helicopters in operations against the LTTE and were also involved in War Crimes like the Massacre at the Shrimp Farm near Kokkadicholai in January 1987.
      Anyone that thinks that the Sri Lankan Forces (especially the STF) were not guilty of carrying out War Crimes should read this Book
      Best regards

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        ” Keenie Meenie by Phil Miller, download it”

        Thanks LS, I will.

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          Hello Nimal,
          I just read an Article on Foreign Minister Vijitha Herath regarding the Sri Lankan Armed Forces conduct during the Civil War.
          Does he represent the views of the NPP?
          Either way I would question his motives.
          Best regards

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            LS,
            JVP members are a bunch of contradictions. JVP members themselves suffered from war crimes committed by the armed forces in 1971 and 1988-91.. Recently they went to town over Batalanda. Herath at one time stood up in Parliament against forced deportation of Tamil temporary residents in Colombo. But here is the same man swearing blind that no war crimes were committed. Or is it genocide?
            His leader made an unplanned appearance at the War Heroes event, but insisted on calling them “soldiers”, not “heroes”. Were these guys soldiers when killing Sinhalese but heroes when killing Tamils?

  • 5
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    … It’s Time For Reflection, Not Only Celebration.
    Doesn’t the ‘Title’, – Not Only Celebration – justify celebration?

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      In SHAM Lanka celebrating a Human tragedy is considered reconciliation.

      We had SHAM …. SHAM …..SHAM…. governments, low and odor , commissions, judiciary, constitution, elections , Ministries, Democrazy, in-dependence , prosperity and splendor, dharmista, good governance…. and now reconciliation.

      • 9
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        Here we go. Rajapaksas, Pissu, Ranil ….. love selectively quoting from their
        self serving commission reports.
        Three SC judge bench overturned Gotha’s PCol findings stating the commission comprising retired SC judge, court of appeal judge and former IGP ( all political lackeys ) had NOT complied with key provisions of commission inquiry act and there was NO material to support that
        “THE COMMISSION HAD CONDUCTED IT’S INQUIRIES LAWFULLY “,
        Further, they found ample evidence to conclude the whole process was fundamentally flawed.
        In short, corrupt Rajapaksas created a SHAM commission on political victimization to victimize then Solicitor General and PC.
        Country like no other.

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    “If we assert that we are working to create a unified country, now is the time for the NPP and its leaders to have the courage and resolve to calm down the highs and lows of victory and defeat, tackle the nationalist tensions in society, and put into action their plan to make “A Beautiful Life and a Thriving Nation”.

    The Foreign Minister threatened Tamils if they talk about the ethnic cleansing he will use the laws created by Gotabaya to take legal action against Tamils. You cannot deny what happened to the Tamils by the Sinhalese governments in 1958, 1977, 1981 and from 1983 to until now. You cannot Tamils by cheating with words but actions such as accountability, responsibility. You cannot find a peaceful solution with special status to Buddhism or afraid of racism and devolution of power.

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      Ajith, agree with you. There is no special status to buddhism or any religion. All men were created equal in God’s image, to be his family. Any who reject that thought have only one other option and that is to be with the demonic satanic burning in hell fire.

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    Reconciliation:
    It is pipe dream in SL as long as the Sinhala Buddhist superiority mentality is there, sown by the politicians who sowed the seeds and now the seedlings has grown to big thick bush. Can you eradicate this bush with the still thriving SB mentality? I dont think so. The only way one can bring about any reconciliation is by forgetting about the next election and keep the clergies out of politics (as mentioned by Sir JK) and take bold steps to bring and implement some sort of self-governing structure based on linguistic basis as is being seen in India and let those structures implement whatever is good for them.
    Now the gold plated brain senile SJ will come out with 2-3 words of wisdom to my post.

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      V
      Is it a preemptive strike?
      Poor you, so I submit

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    Maybe it was a pyrrhic victory for these elites. But for me, it was the only victory that mattered. The JVP had nothing to do with it, if anything, they hindered it as much as they could. There were parts of this country that could never be visited, which I have been to since 2009.

    As much as people complain about Buddhism’s special status, if not for this country and its traditions, Teravada Buddhisum would not be alive today without the contribution from the Monks and the Kings of Sri Lanka. Attempting to deny it is as futile a task as there can ever be.

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    “The NPP leaders need to inspire action and commitment to creating a future where peace, justice, and reconciliation are prioritised.”
    Reconciliation used by Sinhala-Buddhist leaders (except RW) is an empty word.
    In the RW Presidency, there were strong moves and contact with South Africa regarding our own Truth and Reconciliation Commission. Not a word on that in HE President Kumara’s Victory Day speech.
    Instead of the 5th overseas trip for HE President Kumara to Germany, wish he and the Justice Minister had visited Johannesburg to create a relationship with the SA President and have meaningful talks with the relevant officials.
    By the way, even if we have a Truth and Reconciliation Commission, the Nation will have difficulty finding an ‘Archbishop Tutu’ from among the Sinhala-Buddhist society.

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      A Truth and Reconciliation Commission. Are you serious? A fat lot of good that did for South Africa .. Tutu should have been wearing a tutu in my opinion, none of the wrongs of apartheid have been redressed and the victims are still owning nothing and the Government that tries to redress is being humiliated by xenophobes like Trump and Musk, Ef that!!

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    Pyrrhic victory is demented assessment of a senile outdated Marxist in exile? When the war ended, the daily killings, about 100 people, and 400 injured were routine for several decades; it STOPPED. In the south, there were perrenial suicide bombing, attacks targeting civilians, mosques and temples. These STOPPED. The road blocks were REMOVED. Tamil politicians living in Colombo (and in fear of Prabhakaran) COULD VISIT the North. Ordinary Tamils no longer paid to carry on the war, nor faced threats. Those who opposed violence COULD SPEAK without fear against dual violence from state terror and militant terror that put a dual stranglehold on Tamils and rejected the Oslo offer of federalism and other peace packages to continue violence. Tamil intellectuals and dedicated leaders were assassinated with impunity, and all that STOPPED. Roads and RAIL were reconstructed, areas were DE-MINED, local elections HELD. Prabhakaran had killed off all our potential leaders, and NO ONE worthy of the erstwhile culture, education, industry, inclusivenss and compassion of an earlier generation could rise to lead the Tamils who remain divided. The ex-judge Wigneswaran, an ultra-orthodox obscurantist became chief minister, instead of a dynamic modernist of this age of the gene, the internet and AI.

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    If that was a pyrrhic victory, every war should have one of those, as far as I am concerned. I would have never considered Sri Lanka an option for me to retire in if not for that so-called “pyrrhic ” Victory. I know most of the clowns here are living in other countries while making these grandiose pronouncements. but for the average commoner who has no their option that is the reason we have a free country without tyranny.

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