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Why So Much ‘Kunu Harupa’ (Filthy Language)? Protect Children From Abuse 

By Laksiri Fernando

Dr. Laksiri Fernando

Sri Lanka celebrated the International Children’s Day on 1 October with several events in Colombo with the participation of the new Prime Minister, Dr Harini Amarasuriya, and other officials related to children’s issues. Both the PM and the new President, Anura Kumara Dissanayake, issued commendable statements related to broad children’s issues, but the two issues that I am raising here now were not directly addressed.

One is the so much of Kunu Harupa (filthy language) used by the social media and online program personnel, and the other is the lack of a proper distinction made between ‘adults only’ material and other open material.

Let me take first the President’s press release for the day. It begins with the statement “The future belongs to our children.” Therefore, “Let’s dedicate ourselves to creating a better world for them.” Immediately thereafter, the statement identified eight significant challenges, focusing mainly on socio-economic issues, and commendably reports on “risks associated with substance abuse and technology misuse.” But these were not explained. What do we mean by ‘substance abuse’? I would consider some peoples’ intentional use of ‘Kunu Harupa’ as substance abuse.

The ‘technological misuse’ is similarly related to the breakdown of limitations between adult material and child material that is one I am focusing on today. It is not merely the use of technology, which is the culprit, but its misuse. This is high in urban areas than in villages. For this situation not only the teachers or the Ministry that is responsible, but also parents.      

There is of course a broader mission advocated in the President’s statement for children. One of them is to ‘free them from the ‘pressures of exam-focused education.’ Whether this is desirable, or practical would depend on the way this is implemented.

In the Prime Minister’s official statement, she opted to cover both the Children’s and Elders’ Day, a little bit confusing the two. Apparently, it was her first statement as the PM. Her speech at the ceremony held at the Nagananda International Buddhist University (NIBU) was much focused and motivational for school students as children. She argued that “Investing in our future means investing in our children.” This appears to be a common vision of the government which appeared both in the President’s and PM’s statements. In her written statement, the PM emphasized “We are committed to providing a high-quality, public education system that benefits every child in Sri Lanka.”

Most relevant to my theme was her statement that “Moreover, we strongly oppose all forms of physical and mental abuse directed at children, particularly within educational institutions.” Only qualification that I can make is that this is not limited to the educational institutions. Family, extended family, neighborhood, apparent friends can be culprits of child abuse. This I have experienced during my own childhood although I managed to resist them strongly and successfully.

I am referring to early 1950s where the situation was quite under control, in my opinion, compared to the present conditions. Under the present conditions, the children’s minds are largely abused before they are physically or sexually abused. During the Children’s Day celebrations at the NIBU, the DIG Renuka Jayasundara who oversees Child and Women Abuse, Investigation and Prevention Division of the Police mentioned that annually they have been receiving over 10,000 child abuse cases in recent times. This is apparently only a small part of the cases and most of the cases are not reported.

There was a time that Sri Lanka very clearly distinguished between adult material and open material. That time the main transmission was limited to films. The National Films Corporation used to do this job. Cinemas even used this as a propaganda measure to promote attendance. When a film was advertised as ‘adults only,’ obviously many people (men) used to flock around cinema halls! After the appearance of TV, teledramas and YouTube, this control has gone haywire. No one appears to do this job.

Let me give you one recent example. I was extremely surprised to see, otherwise socially responsible Swarnewahini, broadcasting the teledrama named ‘Reconditioned Kella’ (Girl) without categorizing it as ‘Adults Only.’ It is not merely Urani Noshika’s acting which is adults only, but almost the whole story. It begins with the father of the Kella (Dinu) dies with heart attack and a new doctor (Kusal) in the hospital comes across Dinu during the treatment process.

What transpires thereafter is how gender relations or sexuality work in the village, true or not in Sri Lanka’s village areas. It is not only Bappa (father’s younger brother) who is after the girl, but even several ‘grandfathers.’ There were indications at the beginning that Dinu was apprehensive about her own father for similar or other reasons. To me all these are adult material. Swarnewahini broadcasted the 15th episode yesterday (5th Saturday), when Dinu is ready to go for modeling after coming to Colombo with the doctor and her mother.

It is not only ‘Reconditioned Kella’ that is adults only, to my view, among various teledramas, TV shows, movies and other YouTube programs, but so many others. The teledrama called ‘Take Care’ also could be ‘adults only’ considering some of the episodes and the story in general.  ‘National Film Corporation’ or similar institution should better take measure to categorize them ‘Adults Only’ (AO) or require ‘Parents Guidance’ (PG). In Australia, when I open the TV for programs or films, those are categorized as AO or PG. At present, the Australian government is also keen in brining legislation to prevent children (under 14 or 15) from having access to social media completely. This is to prevent their minds getting distorted from various unwarranted material and programs. Violence is also a major concern, even common to Sri Lanka.

Mix up between adult and children performance and dialogues is also controversial in Sri Lanka. For example, Peshala Manoj’s jokes particularly in Champion Star Unlimited program are extremely humorous and enjoyable. But one obvious weakness appears to be his sometimes uttering of adult jokes when children are present or taking even children into the jocular performances. Some of the utterances are also filthy.                   

During our school days at Moratuwa, we were prevented from even uttering ‘Umba Bang.’ This was the case at the University of Peradeniya (1964-68) although some of our friends used to utter that vocabulary. My roommate was so decent, if he was a bit angry with someone, he addressed the person as ‘Yushmatha’ instead of ‘Umba.’ However, it seems that the things have changed a lot today. Perhaps the politicians are the main culprits. In Parliament and in political rallies and platforms, many politicians utter hate speech using sometimes vulgar language. This is also common in some websites.

Sudanththa Thilaksiri who runs a website as ‘Sudaa Creations’ is far extreme in this regard. His behavior is also aggressive or violent when he reports on political events even in the presence of police. A similar website is Sudanthaka Vlog. A strange coincidence is not only their similar names, but their apparent support to AKD and Malimava. There are so many other similar ‘kunu harupa’ programs. Wishwaya Dakimu is another one even without a person appearing on the show. This is against AKD and the government. Gune Aiyage Kamare is also the same.

Although I am not able to write regularly to Colombo Telegraph, Sri Lanka Guardian or other printed newspapers these days, what I wish to point out to the President and the Prime Minister is the paramount importance of protecting children from adult material and Kunu Harupa (filthy) language spreading in the country.

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    Dr. Laksiri Fernando, we don’t need to dissect and discuss the issue of bad language. It just needs to be prohibited in all its manifestations whether in children, adults or any others. If it is seen in the media and in print, there should be provision for a fine to be imposed. If bad mouthing, complain to the police and prevent.

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    Why So Much ‘Kunu Harupa’ (Filthy Language)? Protect Children From Abuse

    Misusing words or engaging in “wordplay” to cover up corruption or failure

    When leaders, especially parliamentarians, use vague or misleading words to deflect accountability, it sets a harmful example. People often follow what they see in authority figures, so if leaders evade responsibility, others may feel justified in doing the same. Misused words can hide corruption and wrongdoing, creating confusion and eroding public trust. Instead of addressing issues directly, this behavior normalizes dishonesty. In a healthy society, leaders should be transparent and accountable, fostering a culture of integrity. When they fail, it encourages a broader pattern of deception and avoidance in others.

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    Mr. Laksiri Fernando, the first step towards achieving what you suggest is to ensure that uneducated criminals and thugs from the lowest dregs of society are kept out of Parliament.

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      “What transpires thereafter is how gender relations or sexuality work in the village, true or not in Sri Lanka’s village areas. It is not only Bappa (father’s younger brother) who is after the girl, but even several ‘grandfathers.’ There were indications at the beginning that Dinu was apprehensive about her own father for similar or other reasons. “
      In Sri Lanka, it is customary not to talk openly of these things, but they do continue to happen because there is no open discussion. Clergy abuse novices, grandfathers abuse their grandchildren, and a Professor from Australia says we should keep quiet!

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        Since Dr. Laksiri seems so annoyed at “Reconditioned Kella”, I decided to watch it on YouTube. For sure, it has adult themes, but it is nicely done. It is also noteworthy that its main actors also appeared in “Koombiyo”, the last Sinhala teledrama that was worth watching.
        Many Sinhala dramas suffer from an overdose of long-suffering and slow-moving lovers, as well as unbelievably saintly Buddhist monks. This one doesn’t, so far.
        I must thank Dr. Laksiri for bringing it to my attention.

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          Having a closer look at this teledrama that Dr. Laksiri objects to, it seems to be partly a modernised version of the hundred-year-old “Village in the Jungle” by Leonard Woolf, which is a school textbook. I do know that the unabridged version describes immoral relationships among the denizens of “Baddegama”. Why is Dr. Laksiri trying to pretend that these things don’t happen in Sinhalese society? Even the use of the word “Umba” in reference to one’s elders is acceptable in some Sinhalese communities, as it is among friends in Colombo .

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    Hello Dr. Laksiri Fernando,
    There seems to be a stage in some Adults lives when they forget completely what they knew as children and adolescents. We knew all the bad words and their full meanings from an early age due to the School Playgrounds. We also knew that some of the most vociferous of the moralists were creepy paedophiles. Adolescent girls at school knew which male Teachers to avoid being alone with. One of my sisters locked a Teacher in his Book Store due to his behaviour, but it was hushed up by the School Authorities.
    Ask any woman from our generation what they thought of Jimmy Saville in the UK. They knew instinctively what he was. He was one of these moralistic presenters of Children’s programmes, who was also a dangerous predatory paedophile. This was covered up by the BBC for years. He was very nearly exposed by the American/British Broadcaster Louis Theroux. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jimmy_Savile_sexual_abuse_scandal
    I never thought that Mary Whitehouse would be resurrected in male guise in Sri Lanka. Stop the moralising, start teaching some relevant Sex Education in Schools and legislate to create a programme that will give Nationwide Coverage to the problems of sexual abuse by Adults on Children and how to prevent (and prosecute) it. This is the 21st Century not the 19th.
    Best regards

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      With all due respect to Laksiri
      Without disputing the theme of the article I wish to point out to urban lad Laksiri of 1950s, from village kolla of Galapitamada, Sisira Quote:
      “During our school days at Moratuwa, we were prevented from even uttering ‘Umba Bang.’”
      Just take the popular verse: Lokko ‘Umbe’ bathala epa Dompeta yana para ‘kiyapan’
      As Laksiri likes to relate stories in his writings:
      My younger sister at that time 5 years old was crying and complained to our mum that Sitanan Aththa call her ‘Umba’

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        Continue..
        When our mum immediately brought this to Sitanan Aththa’s attention, he told the crying little girl “Mama ‘Umbata’ aye ‘Umbe’ kiyanne ne”.
        My little sister cried louder saying the he repeated calling her ‘Umba’.
        This used to be our village in Thun Korale.

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    Can obscene language be eliminated from homes?

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    I agree with you Dr. Fernando. I fully agree with Sudantha Thilakasiri youtube too. I was a subscriber of him. During Gotabhaya’s time he was somewhat controlled. Then I unsubscribed him. The way he abused the lady executive President of this country (I did not watch only the headlines) and the general trend in youtube “broke the last straw”. I changed my internet location through VPN. I switched off “location” on my phone. I changed the gmail from which I log into youtube by my Samsung phone. In youtube I changed the “country” and finally the new gmail + youtube was “populated” by me on videos on history, astronomy (not….logy) etc. I described what I did in detail so that anyone may follow the same. I cannot help if any “nationalist” is offended by this comment. But I wanted to stop filthy low grade “substance” (as Dr. Laksiri calls it) forever. Thank you very much Dr. Laksiri Fernando. I wish you well

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      Correction: “constituted the last straw that broke the camel’s back” should replace what is presently there within “inverted commas” in line four from top

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    “the paramount importance of protecting children “
    especially those children in the ORPHANAGES and the young novice clergies. Didn’t we hear about the child abuses in Catholic Churches in Australia USA and Ireland?
    Schools should not allow kids under the age of 16 to have SMARTPHONES.
    Recently a 13 year old committed suicide because father refused to buy one for him. Sad

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      Hello Naman,
      Kids in the 1950s through to the 90s didn’t have mobiles at all. Did this protect them from abuse? The Catholic Churches and Homes (Nazareth House etc,) are still under Investigation in the UK and Ireland
      In the USA “with over 95% of teens ages 13 to 17 years having access to a cell phone”, can you imagine trying to take all of them away. The Prohibition years would seem tame by comparison.
      Whenever I visited a Secure Military site, after signing in, we all handed over our Smartphones, which were pigeonholed with our names. On leaving our individual phones were handed back. There is nothing stopping Schools having a system like this.
      Best regards

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    I completely agree with Dr. Laksiri Fernando. It’s not just children; even adults are using offensive language when speaking to each other, and it’s deeply concerning. What’s even sadder is that so-called educated individuals are also resorting to this kind of language.

    Social media has become chaotic, especially with some YouTubers who, due to their large number of subscribers and viewers, feel they have the freedom to use offensive language without consequence.

    I watch some of these popular channels, and while they make valid points about issues such as corruption, resorting to foul language ultimately does a disservice to the community in the long run.

    Just like the war created a violent mindset in many people, this use of offensive language could become normalised in future generations.

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