{"id":244238,"date":"2025-11-09T03:25:31","date_gmt":"2025-11-08T21:55:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/?p=244238"},"modified":"2025-11-15T17:11:10","modified_gmt":"2025-11-15T11:41:10","slug":"thirty-one-years-after-a-sons-reflection-on-loss-moral-courage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/index.php\/thirty-one-years-after-a-sons-reflection-on-loss-moral-courage\/","title":{"rendered":"Thirty-One Years After: A Son\u2019s Reflection On Loss &#038; Moral Courage"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"p2\"><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong>By <a style=\"color: #ff6600;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/?s=Asanga+Abeyagoonasekera\">Asanga Abeyagoonasekera<\/a> &#8211;<\/strong><\/span><i><\/i><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_73904\" style=\"width: 160px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-73904\" class=\"size-thumbnail wp-image-73904\" src=\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/Asanga-Abeyagoonasekera1-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/Asanga-Abeyagoonasekera1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/Asanga-Abeyagoonasekera1-50x50.jpg 50w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-73904\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Asanga Abeygoonasekera<\/p><\/div>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">T<\/span>hirty-one years ago, my father was caught in the chaos of an explosion meant for someone else. A woman, carrying death like a quiet ritual, struck the presidential campaign of 1994. <span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><a style=\"color: #ff6600;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/?s=Gamini+Dissanayake\">Gamini Dissanayake<\/a><\/span> was the target. My father, <span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><a style=\"color: #ff6600;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/?s=Ossie+Abeyagoonasekera\">Ossie Abeyagoonasekera<\/a><\/span>, stood beside him and was caught in the blast with fifty others. <span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><a style=\"color: #ff6600;\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Assassination_of_Gamini_Dissanayake\"><span class=\"s1\">Two hundred<\/span><\/a><\/span> were wounded, seventy-five gravely. He fought for seventeen days in a hospital before the struggle ended. I was sixteen, studying for exams that no longer seemed to matter. Life tilted toward a silence that has never lifted. I was an only child, and the absence that followed was complete.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">The suicide bomber \u2014 a Tamil Tiger from the <span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><a style=\"color: #ff6600;\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Black_Tigers\"><span class=\"s1\">Black Tiger squad<\/span><\/a> <\/span>\u2014 was highly trained, delivering death with precision. It was the largest single attack of its kind, claiming many lives and perhaps changing the political course of the nation. In Sri Lanka, <span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><a style=\"color: #ff6600;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/index.php\/bombing-to-ballot-uncomfortable-truths-from-south-asia\/\"><span class=\"s1\">bombs and elections<\/span><\/a><\/span> have too often shared the same stage.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">I remember every detail: the smell of blood in the hospital corridor, his torn clothes, the shouts, the heavy silence after the doctors stepped out. Even now, the memory feels like a companion \u2014 stubborn, unyielding. Such loss teaches something strange: life continues, but without the symmetry of fairness.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_244240\" style=\"width: 910px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-244240\" class=\"size-full wp-image-244240\" src=\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Ossie-Abeyagoonasekera-August-7th-1950-\u2013-November-9th-1994-.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"900\" height=\"609\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Ossie-Abeyagoonasekera-August-7th-1950-\u2013-November-9th-1994-.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Ossie-Abeyagoonasekera-August-7th-1950-\u2013-November-9th-1994--300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Ossie-Abeyagoonasekera-August-7th-1950-\u2013-November-9th-1994--768x520.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Ossie-Abeyagoonasekera-August-7th-1950-\u2013-November-9th-1994--128x86.jpg 128w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-244240\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Ossie Abeyagoonasekera (August 7th, 1950 \u2013 November 9th, 1994)<\/p><\/div>\n<p class=\"p1\">My father\u2019s life was brief \u2014 forty-four years \u2014 yet vast in moral reach. Some adored him; others did not. At the funeral pier, a family approached me: \u201cWe want to keep one of his remains.\u201d Another disapproved: \u201cHe should have stayed with the left.\u201d Others insisted, \u201cHe should have been the nationalist he once was, not striking deals with the Tamils.\u201d I never answered. I let their stories unfold \u2014 of love, anger, and unfinished arguments.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">He pressed against the tide of power in a land that often mistook fear for order. In his library remain photographs: meetings with Indian and Chinese leaders, Indian Prime Minister to <span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><a style=\"color: #ff6600;\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/M._G._Ramachandran\"><span class=\"s1\">M. G. Ramachandran<\/span><\/a><\/span> of South India, with Muammar Gaddafi, who gifted him\u00a0<span class=\"s2\"><i>The Green Book<\/i><\/span>. Letters from U.S. Ambassador <span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><a style=\"color: #ff6600;\" href=\"https:\/\/gufaculty360.georgetown.edu\/s\/contact\/00336000015Zc8WAAS\/teresita-c-schaffer\"><span class=\"s1\">Teresita Schaffer<\/span><\/a> <\/span>and Britain\u2019s High Commissioner <span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><a style=\"color: #ff6600;\" href=\"https:\/\/ccps21.org\/boards\/distinguished-diplomatic-board\/ambassador-david-gladstone\/\"><span class=\"s1\">David Gladstone<\/span><\/a><\/span> trace the improbable intersections of his journey. Years later, Ambassador Schaffer told me, \u201cYour father saw the depth of political challenges on the ground well.\u201d She was right. He remained grounded, seeing hundreds of ordinary people every day until his death. Leaders shook his hand, yet he remained closest to the ordinary \u2014 quiet, human gestures that defined courage.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_244242\" style=\"width: 910px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-244242\" class=\"size-full wp-image-244242\" src=\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Ossie-Abeyagoonasekera-with-Indian-Prime-Minister-V-P-Singh-.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"900\" height=\"463\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Ossie-Abeyagoonasekera-with-Indian-Prime-Minister-V-P-Singh-.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Ossie-Abeyagoonasekera-with-Indian-Prime-Minister-V-P-Singh--300x154.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Ossie-Abeyagoonasekera-with-Indian-Prime-Minister-V-P-Singh--768x395.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-244242\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Ossie Abeyagoonasekera with Indian Prime Minister V P Singh<\/p><\/div>\n<p class=\"p1\">In 1988\u201389, my mother and I were sheltered in Bonn, West Germany, during Sri Lanka\u2019s youth insurrection. My father visited several times. In one of his letters to my mother, he wrote of life\u2019s uncertainty amid bloodshed \u2014 as if preparing me, unknowingly, for his death. He had been targeted more than once \u2014 at Kosgashandiya, at the Kadawatha rally \u2014 each time narrowly escaping. He knew the danger he navigated, perhaps had made a quiet pact with fate.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">In Bonn, I witnessed the world shift as the Berlin Wall fell. Many years later, a German intelligence officer told me my father had taught him courage and integrity \u2014 fragile shields against the absurdity of politics and violence. He knew P. K. Hormis Tharakan in Colombo, later head of India\u2019s RAW. Several accounts confirm his secret meeting with Prabhakaran in Chennai, though no official record exists. When silence could have protected him, he chose speech. When conformity offered comfort, he chose conviction. While imprisoned in 1982, he received a letter from Nelson Mandela: \u201cStruggle continues, and victory is certain.\u201d He lived by those words \u2014 quietly, without anger or applause. Had he lived, he might have championed what so many governments still struggle to uphold: the promise of \u201cNational Reconciliation.\u201d<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_244243\" style=\"width: 460px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-244243\" class=\"size-full wp-image-244243\" src=\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Nelson-Mandelas-prison-writing-to-Ossie-Abeyagoonasekera.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"401\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Nelson-Mandelas-prison-writing-to-Ossie-Abeyagoonasekera.jpg 450w, https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Nelson-Mandelas-prison-writing-to-Ossie-Abeyagoonasekera-300x267.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-244243\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Nelson Mandela\u2019s prison writing to Ossie Abeyagoonasekera<\/p><\/div>\n<p class=\"p1\">In 1982, he created the rice ration book \u2014 a small, defiant object weighted with justice. An investigator later remarked that had he printed enough, he might have toppled an autocrat who postponed elections through a fraudulent <span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><a style=\"color: #ff6600;\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/1982_Sri_Lankan_parliamentary_term_extension_referendum\"><span class=\"s1\">referendum<\/span><\/a><\/span>. Yet he sought not victory, only the right to resist injustice. The rice ration book landed him in jail, where the government prosecutor labeled the case under \u201cNaxalite,\u201d marking him as a threat to the state.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">In 1986, he travelled to Jaffna with colleagues <span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><a style=\"color: #ff6600;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/?s=%22Vijaya+Kumaratunga%22\"><span class=\"s1\">Vijaya Kumaratunga<\/span><\/a><\/span> and Felix Perera, risking his life to negotiate with the LTTE, seeking a political solution to Sri Lanka\u2019s civil war. Many called him na\u00efve, even a traitor \u2014 posters in Colombo labeled them as traitors negotiating with terrorists. Yet he believed principle must exist beyond public opinion. Years later, Rahim, a former LTTE deputy now in Canada, said, \u201cWe trusted him.\u201d I asked, \u201cThen why kill him?\u201d Rahim replied, \u201cHe was not the target.\u201d Trust and death coexist uneasily in our history.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Ossie entered politics young, alongside Vijaya, in a time when dissent was punished with death. After Vijaya\u2019s assassination, he led the Sri Lanka Mahajana Party through years of violence and fear. He saved many lives \u2014 sheltering some at his government residence in Colombo 5 who had escaped the torture chambers of <span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><a style=\"color: #ff6600;\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Batalanda_detention_centre\"><span class=\"s1\">Batalanda<\/span><\/a>,<\/span> and helping others flee the country. One Tamilian found refuge in Paris, two others in Australia, all carrying immense gratitude for his courage.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_244244\" style=\"width: 910px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-244244\" class=\"size-full wp-image-244244\" src=\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/In-Jaffna-talking-peace-with-Tamil-Tigers-LTTE-L-R-Raheem-Vijaya-Kumaratunga-and-Ossie-Abeyagoonasekera-.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"900\" height=\"575\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/In-Jaffna-talking-peace-with-Tamil-Tigers-LTTE-L-R-Raheem-Vijaya-Kumaratunga-and-Ossie-Abeyagoonasekera-.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/In-Jaffna-talking-peace-with-Tamil-Tigers-LTTE-L-R-Raheem-Vijaya-Kumaratunga-and-Ossie-Abeyagoonasekera--300x192.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/In-Jaffna-talking-peace-with-Tamil-Tigers-LTTE-L-R-Raheem-Vijaya-Kumaratunga-and-Ossie-Abeyagoonasekera--768x491.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-244244\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">In Jaffna talking peace with Tamil Tigers LTTE, L-R: Raheem, Vijaya Kumaratunga and Ossie Abeyagoonasekera<\/p><\/div>\n<p class=\"p1\">In 1988, at 38, he ran for president under the United Socialist Alliance, winning 4.63 percent of the vote \u2014 not ambition\u2019s reward, but proof of defiance. <span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><a style=\"color: #ff6600;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ips.lk\/people\/saman-kelegama\/\"><span class=\"s1\">Dr. Saman Kelegama<\/span><\/a> <\/span>who became the director at IPS, then part of his team drafting the election manifesto, later explained to me the depth of his vision. He supported the <span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><a style=\"color: #ff6600;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mea.gov.in\/Portal\/LegalTreatiesDoc\/LK87B1078.pdf\"><span class=\"s1\">Rajiv Gandhi\u2013Jayawardena accord<\/span><\/a><\/span> for devolution, fought corruption, championed accountability as the first leader of the opposition in the Western Provincial Council, and secured compensation for victims of the July 1983 riots. Some critics saw collaboration with President Premadasa as a departure from his earlier stance, yet his commitment to principle remained unwavering. In 1994, he won a parliamentary seat in Colombo\u2014 second only to Ranil Wickremesinghe. Three months later, he was gone.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Life continues. Sri Lanka now faces crossroads similar to those my father confronted. After the 2022 people\u2019s uprising, citizens turned to a third alternative political force, weary of the two mainstream parties. That alternative, led by President Anura Kumara Dissanayake, has launched <span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><a style=\"color: #ff6600;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ft.lk\/top-story\/AKD-declares-war-on-drugs-vows-to-dismantle-black-State\/26-783684\"><span class=\"s1\">anti-corruption and crime-busting<\/span><\/a><\/span> initiatives. These measures matter, but their impact depends on courage \u2014 steadfast enforcement from top to bottom. There are signs of hope, yet power remains a creature resistant to accountability. External shadows continue to loom over administrations in Colombo.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">My father\u2019s legacy lies not in party or position, but in the quiet assertion that integrity matters, even when the world offers none. Politics, at its finest, is not a profession but an act of sincerity \u2014 fierce and unflinching. Sincerity shaped by love: the kind that confronts violence without illusion, preserving dignity when cruelty becomes ordinary.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Thirty-one years later, I still hear his voice in the silence. The world has not changed entirely. Violence persists in the same corridors of power, even in Palestine, whose cause he once defended. Power still corrupts; justice remains fragile. Yet his example endures \u2014 a man who acted because it was right, not because it was safe. That, too, is a form of resistance.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">In remembering him, I see not despair but instruction \u2014 that courage, even when futile, is the only way to honour truth. Perhaps, in the end, that is enough.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p> [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":338,"featured_media":244244,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,46,8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-244238","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-colombotelegraph","category-constitutional-reforms","category-editorial"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Thirty-One Years After: A Son\u2019s Reflection On Loss &amp; Moral Courage - Colombo Telegraph<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" 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