{"id":247235,"date":"2026-05-05T22:03:42","date_gmt":"2026-05-05T16:33:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/?p=247235"},"modified":"2026-05-16T02:40:19","modified_gmt":"2026-05-15T21:10:19","slug":"suriya-friend-comrade","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/index.php\/suriya-friend-comrade\/","title":{"rendered":"Suriya, Friend &#038; Comrade\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"p2\"><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong>By <a style=\"color: #ff6600;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/?s=Manel+Fonseka\">Manel<\/a><span class=\"s1\"><a style=\"color: #ff6600;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/?s=Manel+Fonseka\"> Fonseka<\/a> &#8211;\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><em>Suriya Wickremasinghe\u2019s death has stunned me. A light has gone out of my life and I am lost for words to respond adequately to the moment. To convey to those who did not know her what a force for good her life was. So I am grateful to Lionel Bopage, whom I have never met, that he has written so marvelously, conveying, summarizing everything that made Suriya so special. And because I am unable to match or extend his appreciation, I offer, instead, a lengthy piece I wrote about her 12 years ago. And which I emailed her on 16 July 2022 saying: \u201cI am going thru ancient pendrives &amp; keep coming across long forgotten items. For instance, this \u2018Ode to a friend\u2019. I would love to see it published somewhere, while we are both still around. Will you allow that?\u201d No reply.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>So, &#8220;Suriya, Friend and Comrade&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>It must have been May 1980 when I first met Suriya.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Senior lawyer, <span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><a style=\"color: #ff6600;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/?s=Nadesan\">Mr S Nadesan QC<\/a><\/span>, had been charged with contempt\u2013breach of parliamentary privilege&#8211;for an article\u00a0(written at the request of the Civil Rights Movement) published in <i>The Sun <\/i>newspaper\u00a0in early 1978. The case was to go before the Supreme Court. I decided to attend the\u00a0hearing. I knew no one in the Court that day but sat next to a very friendly lady who\u00a0turned out to be <span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><a style=\"color: #ff6600;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/?s=Suriya+Wickremasinghe\">Suriya<\/a><\/span>\u2019s mother, <span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><a style=\"color: #ff6600;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/?s=Doreen+Wickremasinghe\">Doreen Wickremasinghe<\/a><\/span>. It was she who introduced\u00a0me to Suriya at the end of the hearing. HL de Silva was the defence counsel and Suriya\u00a0was on his team. I noticed that one of her not so minor duties appeared to be gently\u00a0restraining their client whenever he unable to endure the unaccustomed role\u00a0of silent defendant, have others speak on his behalf. Every so often he would begin to rise to his feet when he had perhaps a crucial point to make and was bursting to\u00a0intervene, or perhaps because he just couldn\u2019t bear any longer to be a non-participant.\u00a0 Suriya was always alert to this and would gently touch him on the shoulder, somehow,\u00a0unobtrusively but sufficient to stop him in mid-rise.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_247237\" style=\"width: 910px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-247237\" class=\"size-full wp-image-247237\" src=\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Raja-RKW-Goonesekera-Suriya-and-Manel.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"900\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Raja-RKW-Goonesekera-Suriya-and-Manel.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Raja-RKW-Goonesekera-Suriya-and-Manel-300x177.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Raja-RKW-Goonesekera-Suriya-and-Manel-768x454.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-247237\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Raja (RKW) Goonesekera, Suriya and Manel<\/p><\/div>\n<p class=\"p4\">On 25 June the Supreme Court announced that Nadesan was \u2018within his rights in\u00a0writing what he did.\u2019 \u2019Twas a famous victory, if not one hundred percent welcome by\u00a0the defendant who had been rather set on the idea of going to prison for his beliefs, said\u00a0Suriya\u2014acquittal may have been rather an anti-climax for him.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p5\">Suriya was part of Nadesan\u2019s own defence team in a number of cases involving fundamental rights (and related) issues, both for CRM and for other clients\u2013among them the Challenge to the Press Council Bill before the Constitutional Court in 1972, the Kalawana By-Election case in 1980\/81, the Petition to the Supreme Court challenging the Third Amendment in 1982 (along with Reeza Hameed), the Hewamanne v. de Silva case (concerning serious aspersions cast on two Supreme Court judges) 1982\/83, and the Paul Nallanayagam case in 1986. And, of course, all these engagements were <i>pro bono<\/i>. She also assisted him when he was one of the defending\u00a0counsel during the trials held in the aftermath of the JVP uprising of 1971.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p6\">I inquired about joining CRM and Suriya suggested I first receive its documents for a\u00a0few months to see if I could fully identify with the aims and concerns. After sometime I\u00a0was at last invited to join.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p7\">Then began a very special time for me as I gradually entered into the life of an organization which drew on the knowledge, work and commitment of an array of remarkable people. At that time the Chairman was Bishop Lakshman Wickremasinghe, the Secretary, lawyer Desmond Fernando, and the Treasurer, librarian, Bernadeen Silva. Suriya was on the Working Committee along with others like Fr Celestine Fernando and Fr Tissa Balasuriya, lawyers S Nadesan QC, RKW Goonesekera (later Chairman), K Kandasamy and TC Rajaratnam, political scientist Kumari Jayawardena, former Civil Servant Charlie Abeyesekera, and journalist and editor Victor Gunawardana. A host of other lawyers were also active members in the 1980s, like Mervyn Casie Chetty, Kumar Ponnambalam, Reeza Hameed, Ainsley Samarajiwa, Nimal Senanayake, Sithy Thiruchelvam, Mani Underwood and Javid Yusuf. There was also retired civil servant, Mr\u00a0 Kanapathypillai, who came in every morning and translated relevant articles from the Tamil press. All these people, except for the Bishop (whom I had known for many years) and Dr Kumari Jayawardena, were new to me and it was exciting and inspiring to join them. I discovered that there was much more to CRM\u2019s activity than the issuing of press statements. There were also Resolutions issued by the Movement or the Working Committee, Working Papers for discussion among members or an even wider audience, and Information Notes which were invariably produced by lawyer members for briefings about the implications of new laws or various emergency regulations.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_247241\" style=\"width: 910px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-247241\" class=\"size-full wp-image-247241\" src=\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Suriya-Desmond-Reeza-Hameed.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"900\" height=\"900\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Suriya-Desmond-Reeza-Hameed.jpeg 900w, https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Suriya-Desmond-Reeza-Hameed-300x300.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Suriya-Desmond-Reeza-Hameed-150x150.jpeg 150w, https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Suriya-Desmond-Reeza-Hameed-768x768.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Suriya-Desmond-Reeza-Hameed-550x550.jpeg 550w, https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Suriya-Desmond-Reeza-Hameed-45x45.jpeg 45w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-247241\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Suriya, Desmond, Reeza Hameed<\/p><\/div>\n<p class=\"p8\">Apart from its public statements and approaches to government bodies, CRM intervened in other ways to protect the citizen, for instance, by its representations to the\u00a0Committees of the Constituent Assembly suggesting amendments to the Draft 1972\u00a0Constitution, and its studies of statutes like the Parliament (Powers and Privileges)\u00a0Amendment Law and Special Presidential Commissions of Inquiry Law, hastily passed\u00a0 in early 1978. And of course there were fundamental rights cases taken on by CRM,\u00a0such as I have instanced earlier. The Annual Report\u2013invariably presented by Suriya at the AGM\u2013gave \u2018ordinary\u2019 members a taste of just how much more CRM was doing\u00a0 than they could have imagined.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p9\">Even non-Working Committee members, however, were invited to contribute to\u00a0discussions, make proposals or volunteer for specific tasks. However, as I became more\u00a0deeply involved in the everyday workings of the movement, I could see that Suriya\u2019s\u00a0presence and role were key in so many ways. She was more or less a fulltime (unpaid)\u00a0worker, who\u2013so it seemed to me\u2013was considerably responsible for the shape, standards and direction the CRM acquired over its many years of existence. This is of course, not\u00a0to deny the contribution of a number of other dedicated persons, some of whom I only\u00a0met occasionally as they lived far from Colombo, like Fr Paul Casperz, Fritz Kodagoda\u00a0and Prins Rajasooriya.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p10\">It was only after I was invited onto the Working Committee that I learnt how much\u00a0time and effort went into the drafting of documents, even before they were introduced\u00a0at a Working Committee meeting for all to discuss and reshape. Many of those first\u00a0drafts were done by Suriya, in collaboration with others or alone. They were always\u00a0meticulous, beautifully written. A Working Committee might bring suggestions,\u00a0disagreements and in a very democratic process, sift and evaluate the drafts. The \u2018gathering-up\u2019 frequently fell to Suriya, who incorporated any revisions and produced the final document for the Working Committee to agree and the Chairman or Secretary to sign.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p11\">Working with Suriya was an education. Her knowledge of the law, her attention to\u00a0detail, her deep commitment to human rights and liberal values, her ability to go to the\u00a0heart of a problem, and the untiring, unflagging energy she gave, completely\u00a0voluntarily, to the promotion and protection of civil and political rights, could not but\u00a0impress and influence me greatly. I am truly grateful for having had such a period in my life.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p12\">For many years CRM operated solely on members\u2019 subscriptions and private donations,\u00a0and lacked a permanent office. Intellectual and other work was all freely undertaken by members. After some time paid clerical assistance was taken on but the development and management of what came to be the CRM structure was also carried out entirely\u00a0voluntarily. I remember a well-known, left-wing, trade unionist leader remarking to me that\u00a0Suriya \u2018carried the CRM in her handbag.\u2019<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>I didn\u2019t care for or think much of his comment\u00a0at the time, but now I realize there was some truth in it\u2013especially during the years\u00a0when CRM had no permanent office of its own. At the time, over ten years after its\u00a0inception, CRM was still operating from half a room in the Secretary\u2019s law office and\u00a0just about had a small filing cabinet to itself. By then, however, its day-to-day work had swelled to such an extent (public statements being issued in three languages and widely\u00a0distributed) that two young women, Sepali Rajapakse and Mercy Dias (succeeded by Indra Jasinghe) had been taken on in a paid capacity, and worked under Suriya\u2019s\u00a0guidance.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p13\">If it should seem that this is more about CRM than about Suriya, I can only say\u00a0that for me Suriya is and has always been so closely identified with CRM (and\u00a0the NC), that it is impossible to think of one without the other, so this is inevitable.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p14\">Her work for the CRM and later the Nadesan Centre was by no means restricted to the intellectual sphere, the preparation of documents or legal work of various kinds,\u00a0development of procedures, standards, etc. It was she, too, who planned the way in\u00a0which the accommodation (once CRM was fortunate enough to acquire a permanent\u00a0home) was organized and furnished. Inheriting, I am sure, her mother Doreen\u2019s\u00a0practicality, Suriya even designed most of the furniture\u2013in particular, the Nadesan\u00a0Centre library bookshelves, her plans faithfully and beautifully executed by Sardiis, the master carpenter from Matara.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p15\">Sometimes I had the opportunity to work closely with her on a project or document. I recall a time when CRM was concerning itself with the protection of victims of the\u00a0conflict from all parties during offensives in various parts of the country. We knew\u00a0something of the role of the International Committee of the Red Cross (ICRC) in\u00a0such situations but weren\u2019t sure of<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>its applicability to Sri Lanka in 1987 (something that Dep. Defence Minister Athulathmudali strongly denied).<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>In order to\u00a0study the Geneva Conventions with their Common Article 3 on \u2018internal conflicts\u2019, Suriya and I went away for a weekend to a friend\u2019s seaside house to concentrate on the subject, mid July 1987. We took a large number of ICRC\u2019s\u00a0Annual Reports to familiarize ourselves with its programs all over the\u00a0world. While we worked together in this task it was Suriya who looked after\u00a0\u2018our welfare\u2019, bringing along a well-organized picnic basket so that we were freed for the task in hand.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p16\">It is very satisfying to work with Suriya on something like a book or a report, because\u00a0apart from learning so much from her superior knowledge during the process, and\u00a0despite the fact that 90 % of the work is usually hers, one always ends up (due to the\u00a0alphabetical protocol that not <i>everyone <\/i>adheres to) as first author, unless one\u2019s name happens to be Wombeck or Wurzel. This is as true of the report (not a short one that,\u00a0but 34 pages with 10 appendices) that emerged from our seaside sojourn, as it is of <i>21\u00a0Years of CRM<\/i>, 1993<i> <\/i>(85pp.).<\/p>\n<p class=\"p17\">In December 1990 Suriya went to the US to accept the Carter-Menil Human Rights\u00a0Prize on behalf of CRM. It is typical of her that she prefaced her acceptance speech by\u00a0acknowledging <i>other <\/i>people and organizations whose work had contributed to that of\u00a0 the CRM. She spoke of \u2018the leadership and intellect\u2019 of several remarkable people,\u00a0CRM members, who were no more, \u2018among them Bishops Leo Nanayakkara and Lakshman Wickremasinghe, S Nadesan QC, Nimal Senanayake, K Kanthasamy and\u00a0Rev. Celestine Fernando.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>She went on to acknowledge CRM\u2019s \u2018debts to many persons\u00a0<i>outside <\/i>its membership\u2019 upon whose data-gathering in dangerous conditions CRM\u00a0 often depended; and finally, <i>other organizations<\/i>, local and international, whose own\u00a0work had either complimented CRM\u2019s or been a source of advice, emulation or\u00a0 assistance. This is typical of Suriya\u2013this stepping-back from the limelight and bringing others forward to receive acknowledgement instead.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p18\">One of the concerns which CRM maintained long after it had hit the headlines and been\u00a0 forgotten in the country was the horrendous murders of 52 Tamil prisoners and detainees in two separate \u2018incidents\u2019 in Welikade in July 1983. As late as 1989, CRM\u00a0 was still urging the government under which these killings took place to set up an\u00a0 independent commission of inquiry but, shockingly, it failed to institute an inquiry into what happened, to \u2018prosecute those involved in the crimes.\u2019 Concerning this, many years later, the members of the \u2018Truth Commission\u2019 were to say: \u2018It is the responsibility of every government to ensure that perpetrators of crimes are punished and that no one acts with impunity or gets away without accountability. The government of the day has failed to discharge these obligations.\u2019<strong><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">[2]<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p19\">Here is a vital area of work that Suriya, primarily, engaged in on behalf of CRM, that I\u00a0cannot fail to elaborate&#8211;her unceasing, unremitting pursuit of justice for the survivors of the Welikade massacres and victims\u2019 dependants when they were all but forgotten by\u00a0the rest of Sri Lanka. Sometime in 1985, the Jaffna Home for Human Rights approached\u00a0CRM<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>for assistance to file some civil cases for damage. It was then that <i>Suriya<\/i>,\u00a0<i>mainly<\/i>, on behalf of CRM, sought out survivors and dependants, even in India and Europe, to interview. This painful and arduous process ultimately led to the filing of 35\u00a0civil cases by dependants of the victims. One can only guess how painful it must have been for Suriya and\u00a0one or two others who assisted in the process, to listen over and over again to those harrowing accounts. It needed a special kind of strength to keep\u00a0going and maintain one\u2019s objectivity while listening to such heart-rending stories. Later, the instructing attorneys continually tried to obtain the statements recorded by\u00a0the Police after the first massacre, but the Police were totally uncooperative.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p19\">It was\u00a0finally only in late 2002 that a Presidential Commission, appointed by the then government in July 2001, listened to submissions about the killings and ordered\u00a0 compensation to be paid\u2013<i>nineteen years after the events<\/i>. Suriya gave evidence before\u00a0 the Commission and it is clear that an enormous amount of work and energy went into\u00a0 her collection of vital data, hard-to-obtain evidence, and that a careful sifting and\u00a0 checking had been necessary to test the veracity of different versions of what happened.\u00a0 Summing up, the Commission had this to say: \u2018\u2026<i>we wish to make reference to Ms\u00a0Suriya Wickremasinghe, Secretary of the Civil Rights Movement of Sri Lanka, for the salutary contributions she had made ever since the tragic events of July 1983 to\u00a0unravel the events that occurred at Welikade and made available very useful material\u00a0which throw light in this regard. We wish to record our appreciation of Ms\u00a0Wickremasinghe\u2019s contributions.<\/i><strong><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">\u2019[3]<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p20\">Some years later, the University Teachers for\u00a0Human Rights (Jaffna) which had already utilized a lot of Suriya\u2019s findings in its\u00a0publications, were to acknowledge \u2018<i>Suriya Wickremasinghe, who more than anyone\u00a0else has painstakingly studied the matter from the start, and tracked down and\u00a0interviewed most of the survivors in different parts of the world<\/i>\u2026.\u2019<strong><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">[4]<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p12\">While this is mostly about Suriya\u2019s work in CRM, as it is the area with which I am\u00a0most familiar, I must say something of her contribution to the promotion and protection of human rights in other fora as well. The Nadesan Centre for Human Rights Through\u00a0Law was instituted in 1987. While being complementary in some ways to CRM, it has\u00a0a different outreach and is a service-oriented rather than a campaigning organization,\u00a0with the aid of its specialized library, providing \u2018a consultative and advisory service for lawyers engaged in human rights cases.\u2019 It \u2018also aims to provide a forum for scholarly\u00a0 discussion, to engage in research and bring out publications on selected topics, to\u00a0 examine violations of human rights and provide legal representation in selected cases,\u00a0 to liaise with similar organizations elsewhere and to promote public education in\u00a0 human rights.\u2019 Suriya has been Joint Secretary from its inception and is greatly\u00a0responsible for the way it developed. She also established the Library, ensuring its proactive character with publications like the <i>Interdoc <\/i>series and HR guidebooks. A look at the Library register is sufficient to indicate the wide use that is being made of its resources. As with CRM, Suriya\u2019s is the constant presence and guiding spirit, with the\u00a0able assistance of the library staff, Gnana Hemasiri and Clare Wickremasinghe.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p21\">The Nadesan Centre produced two key publications in the field of HR and\u00a0Humanitarian Law. One was co-authored by Suriya and the other \u2018guided\u2019 by her: <i>An\u00a0 Introductory Guide to Human Rights Law and Humanitarian Law <\/i>(with Virginia Leary), 1993, 1995, and <i>Reading Human Rights: An Annotated Guide to a Human\u00a0 Rights Library<\/i>, by Stephen C Neff, 1997. Neff refers to Suriya (and Emma Playfair) as\u00a0\u2018guiding spirits throughout [his] project\u2019, and to her co-authored <i>Introductory Guide <\/i>as\u00a0\u2018probably the best book to have\u2019 \u2018for a brief and informative introduction to both the substantive and procedural aspects of international human rights law.\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"p22\">Another forum in which Suriya works is the Bar Association. Its <i>Newsletter <\/i>has carried <i>inter alia <\/i>a series of articles by her describing unsatisfactory features of the HR\u00a0situation in the country. She has also been active on many issues taken up by the Bar\u00a0Council, in particular through making representations on the erosion of the judiciary\u00a0under the 1972 Constitution.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p23\">Furthermore, Suriya is\/has been a member, advisor and office bearer of several international human rights organizations, including Amnesty International (AI), founded in the same year as CRM. When Amnesty received the Nobel Peace prize in 1977, Suriya who was on its International Executive Committee (IEC), the governing body of AI, was on the delegation that went to receive it, and from 1982 to 1985 she was Chairperson of the IEC. Another body that has benefited from her knowledge and experience is Index on Censorship, on whose Advisory Board or Council she has served on from about 1994 to date<strong><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">[5].<\/span><\/strong> How she actually manages to do so much both here and abroad is a mystery to me but it is clear that her presence is greatly valued by these outstanding human rights bodies. Moreover, the work of CRM and the Nadesan Centre has naturally benefited from the knowledge and experience gained from these associations.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p9\">I am profoundly grateful for the period I was associated with the work of the CRM and\u00a0the NC library. It was a stimulating and important time for me, distressing though much\u00a0of it was by virtue of its concerns\u2013when one was addressing more painful issues, like\u00a0\u2018disappearance\u2019 or death in custody. Working with people like Mr Nadesan, Bishop\u00a0Lakshman and others, could not but be inspiring, and Suriya, to all intents and\u00a0 purposes, \u2018office manager\u2019, created a happy, efficient environment that helped one to\u00a0 cope with the bleakness of many of the situations with which we were concerned.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p25\">Many people have contributed to the development of CRM\u2013being more than presences\u00a0at meetings or discussants of statements, etc.\u2013but from the time\u00a0I joined CRM, in1980\/81, it seemed to me that Suriya alone held all the threads in her hands as a\u00a0totally committed, fulltime worker. Few organizations in SL could have had at the heart\u00a0of them such dedication, knowledge, experience and selflessness, and all given on a\u00a0voluntary basis. And to work with or under Suriya was an education. Though many of the issues one dealt with were deeply\u00a0distressing, the camaraderie and sheer satisfaction of work in the environment for\u00a0which Suriya was so greatly responsible, soon made me one who went into the \u2018office\u2019 almost every day for about ten years.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p26\">Though I remain a member of CRM, after some time I was unable to sustain the energy\u00a0necessary to keep active. By the late 1980s, amidst the second JVP uprising, I was\u00a0extremely tired and felt the need to cease regular participation. I hung on for a few more years when given the task of setting up the library for the Nadesan Centre with\u00a0Suriya, then more or less stopped going in except for general meetings. The last thing I\u00a0was engaged in for CRM was <i>21 Years<\/i>, a collaboration with Suriya, in which she did\u00a0 most of the intellectual work as usual, and I conveyed her thoughts to paper (or rather\u00a0computer screen).<\/p>\n<p class=\"p27\">I was very tired after only ten or twelve years of regular commitment, but Suriya, Suriya\u00a0has been going strong since 1971!<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>So many of CRM\u2019s members have died or grown tired, but Suriya has kept the ship afloat and even started new projects during what might have been bleak periods&#8211;one such is the series of Dissent booklets. And I know that she has begun yet another project. For 43 years she has remained at the helm of CRM whoever else was there beside her, and she is also the possessor of so much experience and history that needs to be written down.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p28\">On different note, Suriya\u2019s kindness must be by now quite legendary. I recall many occasions on which I experienced it. To take just three\u2013back in the 1980s when I had to\u00a0 undergo a small but uncomfortable operation, it was Suriya who brought me out of\u00a0 hospital, took me to her home, tucked me into bed and took care of me the rest of the\u00a0 day until I was well enough to go home. Then in the mid 1980s when I found myself in a rather frightening situation which called for legal advice and assistance, Suriya, who\u00a0 happened to be in London at the time for AI work, took me to stay with her, organized\u00a0 a lawyer and \u2018held my hand\u2019 generally until that unfortunate episode was over. Fifteen years later while living in Europe, I fell chronically ill and decided to return to Sri Lanka (alone) to be treated. I needed regular medical consultations over many months.\u00a0 It was Suriya again who ensured that I did not fail to attend, fetching me and bringing me back as well as generally concerning herself with my welfare during this period.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p29\">Her kindness and generosity continues to this day, to me and to others.<\/p>\n<p>Thank you, dear\u00a0Suriya, for this and for so much else.<\/p>\n<p>November 2014<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong>[1] <\/strong><\/span>The Geneva Conventions and the International Committee of the Red Cross: Their Relevance to Sri Lanka. 1st edn. July 1987.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">[2]<\/span><\/strong> Report of the Presidential Truth Commission on Ethnic Violence (1981\u20141984), Sessional Paper No. III\u00a0 \u2013 2003, para 212.<br \/>\n<strong><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">[3]<\/span> <\/strong>Op. cit., para 213.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">[4]<\/span><\/strong> Scripting the Welikade Massacre Inquest and the Fate of Two Dissidents, 31 May 2007.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">[5]<\/span><\/strong> i.e. 2014, when this was originally written.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p> [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":485,"featured_media":247237,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,46,61,8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-247235","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-colombotelegraph","category-constitutional-reforms","category-obituaries","category-editorial"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Suriya, Friend &amp; 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