{"id":73896,"date":"2013-02-16T16:34:27","date_gmt":"2013-02-16T16:34:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/?p=73896"},"modified":"2013-02-19T14:37:05","modified_gmt":"2013-02-19T14:37:05","slug":"an-unfinished-life-my-father-ossie-and-vijaya","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/index.php\/an-unfinished-life-my-father-ossie-and-vijaya\/","title":{"rendered":"An Unfinished Life &#8211; My Father Ossie And Vijaya"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><span style=\"font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;\">By <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/\">Asanga Abeyagoonasekera<\/a><\/span> &#8211;<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_73904\" style=\"width: 160px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/index.php\/an-unfinished-life-my-father-ossie-and-vijaya\/asanga-abeyagoonasekera-2\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-73904\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-73904\" class=\"size-thumbnail wp-image-73904\" title=\"Asanga Abeyagoonasekera\" src=\"http:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/Asanga-Abeyagoonasekera1-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/Asanga-Abeyagoonasekera1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/Asanga-Abeyagoonasekera1-50x50.jpg 50w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-73904\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Asanga Abeyagoonasekera<\/p><\/div>\n<p>The 25th death anniversary of <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/?s=Vijaya+Kumaratunga&amp;x=10&amp;y=6\">Vijaya Kumaratunga<\/a><\/span> falls on 16<sup>th<\/sup>\u00a0February. In order to honour this fearless leader, I thought of contributing an appreciation. Vijaya and my father Ossie Abeyagoonasekera were very close friends and I remember him visiting our place almost every day and working together until his death in 1988. My father was always very supportive for his political cause. Even though I was quite young when he died, I remember how people gathered to see him. His personality was such that he managed to bring happiness to everyone, be it through his life as an actor or as a politician. Some who didn\u2019t like his politics loved his movies.\u00a0Vijaya along with my father and few other members of the party were jailed in 1982 as Naxalite prisoners during <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/?s=JR+Jayewardene&amp;x=5&amp;y=8\">J.R. Jayawardena<\/a><\/span>\u2019s period in office. They went through many hardships in their political journey and one could call Vijaya&#8217;s was an unfinished life. He was assassinated at a young age of 43.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_73897\" style=\"width: 451px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/index.php\/an-unfinished-life-my-father-ossie-and-vijaya\/vijaya-k\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-73897\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-73897\" class=\" wp-image-73897 \" title=\"vijaya k\" src=\"http:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/vijaya-k.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"441\" height=\"324\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/vijaya-k.jpg 551w, https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/vijaya-k-300x220.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 441px) 100vw, 441px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-73897\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Vijaya Kumarathunga and Ossie Abeyagoonasekera during their visit to Jaffna in 1986<\/p><\/div>\n<p>He was the founder of Sri Lanaka Mahajana Party (SLMP) which used to be the third largest party some years ago. Unfortunately the SLMP almost died down as it lost many members, totally about 117 who were assassinated during the 88 insurrection. Vijaya was the first to be killed.<\/p>\n<p>Vijaya\u2019s courage became evident when he made a journey to Jaffna in 1986 to meet the <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/?s=LTTE&amp;x=9&amp;y=4\">LTTE<\/a><\/span> leaders such as Kittu and Raheem. My father and Felix Perera accompanied him. The intention of this journey was to engage in a political discussion in order to free Sri Lankan soldiers who were detained by the LTTE. They managed to win the hearts of the Tamilians of Jaffna. While delivering one of his most memorable and remarkable speeches, Vijaya stated that \u201cSinhalese and Tamils are one &#8230;\u201d For a politician to utter these words in the political context which prevailed in 1986 requires courage.\u00a0 It should be noted that he never changed his position. He was called a traitor by some in Colombo after this journey. Before his death Vijaya was about to create a grand political alliance which was later created with the leadership of my father \u2013 the \u201cUnited Social Alliance\u201d under which my father contested for the Presidential election in 1989.<\/p>\n<p>Vijaya was not afraid to meet Tamil political leaders to discuss solutions for the ethnic problem. He had a very close relationship even with South India. I remember seen one photograph where he was pictured with M.G. Ramachandran. He had the charisma to win people and people gathered to see him and listen to his speeches where ever he visited.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/index.php\/an-unfinished-life-my-father-ossie-and-vijaya\/vijaya-k1\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-73898\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft  wp-image-73898\" title=\"vijaya k1\" src=\"http:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/vijaya-k1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"452\" height=\"297\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/vijaya-k1.jpg 502w, https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/vijaya-k1-300x197.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 452px) 100vw, 452px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Vijaya did not go behind money or luxuries in life. He could not be bought by anyone. He was a true politician with a kind heart. My father commemorated Vijaya each year until his death in 1994. He built the statue at Polhengoda where he was assassinated which was later taken to Kandana. He also opened a museum so that people could see and remember this impressive leader. He released a stamp, a sports trophy on behalf of him and every time he spoke of Vijaya, he was emotional. He loved his dear friend. Every single speech I have listened to had a bit about Vijaya and the slain heroes of Sri Lanka Mahajana Party.<\/p>\n<p>Vijaya was a courageous leader. He epitomized qualities of a courageous leader by fearlessly adapting and changing with the intention of ensuring a greater benefit to the society without running behind popularity. Vijaya believed in a multiethnic society and in devolution of power. He expressed his support to the Indo-Lanka Accord which brought about the 13<sup>th<\/sup> amendment very publicly. When it is difficult to find a handful of politicians who would be courageous enough to engage in a constructive debate on the 13<sup>th<\/sup> amendment even today when it had been implemented for over 25 years, the challenge Vijaya took in 1985 was enormous. One might think that most of the Sri Lankan Sinhalese politicians did succumb to popular politics of engaging in ethnic politics. But Vijaya was one of the few exceptions. \u2018To stand against the tide when the tide is high is foolish and irrational\u2019, one might say. Leaders sometimes need to make unpopular decisions as it was with Abraham Lincoln who implemented the 13th Amendment in the US constitution to give rights to the African Americans. It was not the most popular thing to do at that time. It will be history which decides whether you are a great leader or not, as it is the case with Abraham Lincoln. In the Sri Lankan case where ethnic harmony connotes how much inter-ethnic and communal trust you can build, actions of individuals such as Vijaya meant a lot for all the communities in Sri Lanka. Memories of Vijaya still bring hope and stands for the reality that not all Sinhalese are bigoted.<\/p>\n<p>Had Vijaya and many other leaders who lost their lives were alive today, we could have witnessed a transformation in our political culture. He never had a price tag for him; he was honest and was truly dedicated to solve the ethnic problem. Vijaya introduced many politicians. However most them do not represent his party or ideology today. Only a few mention his name. In his death anniversary, we can pay tribute to Vijay by being introspective on what we can carry and introduce to the younger generation from his personality, from his political career and from his life.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p> [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":73904,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,46],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-73896","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-colombotelegraph","category-constitutional-reforms"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>An Unfinished Life - My Father Ossie And Vijaya  - Colombo Telegraph<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/index.php\/an-unfinished-life-my-father-ossie-and-vijaya\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"An Unfinished Life - My Father Ossie And Vijaya  - Colombo Telegraph\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"[&hellip;]\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/index.php\/an-unfinished-life-my-father-ossie-and-vijaya\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Colombo Telegraph\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2013-02-16T16:34:27+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:modified_time\" content=\"2013-02-19T14:37:05+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/Asanga-Abeyagoonasekera1.jpeg\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"298\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"368\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/jpeg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"COLOMBO TELEGRAPH\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"COLOMBO TELEGRAPH\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"5 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/index.php\/an-unfinished-life-my-father-ossie-and-vijaya\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/index.php\/an-unfinished-life-my-father-ossie-and-vijaya\/\",\"name\":\"An Unfinished Life - My Father Ossie And Vijaya - Colombo Telegraph\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/#website\"},\"primaryImageOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/index.php\/an-unfinished-life-my-father-ossie-and-vijaya\/#primaryimage\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/index.php\/an-unfinished-life-my-father-ossie-and-vijaya\/#primaryimage\"},\"thumbnailUrl\":\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/Asanga-Abeyagoonasekera1.jpeg\",\"datePublished\":\"2013-02-16T16:34:27+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2013-02-19T14:37:05+00:00\",\"author\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/#\/schema\/person\/9db3d0cfcfa59e1997e3c3524d454cb3\"},\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/index.php\/an-unfinished-life-my-father-ossie-and-vijaya\/#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/index.php\/an-unfinished-life-my-father-ossie-and-vijaya\/\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/index.php\/an-unfinished-life-my-father-ossie-and-vijaya\/#primaryimage\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/Asanga-Abeyagoonasekera1.jpeg\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/Asanga-Abeyagoonasekera1.jpeg\",\"width\":\"298\",\"height\":\"368\",\"caption\":\"Asanga Abeygoonasekera\"},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/index.php\/an-unfinished-life-my-father-ossie-and-vijaya\/#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Home\",\"item\":\"https:\/\/www.colombotelegraph.com\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":2,\"name\":\"An Unfinished Life &#8211; 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